Wednesday, April 14, 2010

The Online Breakup

"We are over, Don't Hate me" scribbled on a post-it...Do you think that is a bad way to get dumped?

Well what about your 500 facebook friends knowing your relationship is over before you even know?


Social media is a great tool to stay in touch with friends and family far away and also network. This tool allows us to share pictures, and status updates. For lovers everybody knows their dates, what they bought each other and they see all the kissy photos. Social media is a great way for lovers to gloat about their ooo soo amazing relationship until the breakup happens...
Step 1) Your relationship isn't really OVER, until you change your facebook status.
Step 2) The main default picture needs to be changed from love and kissy to single sexiness
Step 3) You get support from friends and family, which is helpful but then again THE WHOLE world knows its over, which makes it harder
Step 4) The stalking...Admit it you check who your now ex is making friends with, writing to and what they are doing.

It is so unhealthy.


So no matter how much we use media to show off, it can bite us in the ass at times.

Appifany

Addiction. Junky. Fiend. Crave. Obsession.
How far does your media consumption take you?
Growing up in the emergence of the popularity of the world wide web, when AOL was the only web browser to have and we had to LISTEN to the beeps and buzzes of signing on dial-up, I have spent almost my whole life in front of this familiar screen.

A decade later I find myself in college, immersing myself even more into this new media consumption, and studying the art and science and how this technology influences my chosen career path in the Communications field.

Thus, this blog was born, I decided to do something productive with all this consumption fused with my passion of writing.

Too many thoughts too many ideas, so read and comment if you wish, because I have joined the citizen journalists online..aka BLOGGERS.

From Myspace to facebook to twitter and all the other social media networks that failed in between, social media has become an important aspect of our society.

Are we using social media or is social media using us?
Advertisers were falling off as internet increased in popularity, it happened so fast they needed to abandon the model that allowed prosperity for so long.
Advertisers have taken a bold step to using social media to their advantage and created a brand and personality just as we have.
How many hours a day do we spend on these social media sites? As a college student I know how easy it is to become distracted by a quick facebook chat and not return to my paper for hours.
Social Media is major in MY life, as a communications/media monger.
I am amazed by it, but it can have its downsides, such as bullying increase due to people feel more confident behind the computer screen, scary online dating, bad pictures on the web and TOO much information sharing.

I compare the media relationship to an affair because it is something we cannot resist. We always have that undenying relationship with the media whether we try to escape or embrace it. Media impressions hit us thousands of times a day. Media is held high in our culture but then again what does that really say about our culture?

Like I stated at the top of the blog: Use caution with media consumption.